Things I Do to Make My Life Easier as a Toddler Mom

Motherhood is beautiful… but let’s be honest—it’s also chaos with extra cuddles. Between chasing my toddler, managing meals, and squeezing in work and workouts, I’ve learned that systems are everything. Over time, I’ve found a few things I do to make my life easier as a toddler mom—simple habits that help me stay organized, calm, and actually enjoy these fleeting years.

1. Little Spoon Meals Make Toddler Mom Life Easier

One of my best mom hacks ever: Little Spoon meal deliveries. I get them every other week, and it’s such a treat because it gives me a complete week off from planning, cooking, and doing dishes. The portions are perfect, and Eliana actually loves the flavors (win-win!). It saves time, energy, and so much mental load on those busier weeks.

2. Easy Toddler Meal Plans That Simplify Mom Life

Even though I rely on Little Spoon, I still like to prep some homemade meals and snacks. Having a few go-to toddler meal plans with easy recipes—like veggie muffins, fruit oatmeal bites, and mini chicken patties—makes weekday cooking so much smoother. I usually meal prep a few items on Sundays so I can just grab and heat during the week.

3. How Waking Up Early Makes My Life Easier as a Toddler Mom

My secret weapon? Waking up early. Before Eliana wakes, I have time for my matcha, bible reading, a quick workout, and sometimes even answering emails. It’s my peaceful window to focus on myself and set the tone for the day. If you’re feeling constantly rushed or reactive, an early start might be the single best shift you make.

4. I Use Grocery Delivery & Pick-Up

I rarely step foot inside a grocery store anymore. Between HEB Drive Up and Whole Foods delivery, I get everything I need without the toddler meltdowns in aisle five. It’s efficient, saves hours every week, and helps me stick to my meal plan (because I’m not impulse-buying snacks).

5. I Plan Weekly Outfits for Both of Us

This one sounds small, but it’s huge: I lay out outfits for the week—both mine and Eliana’s. I hang them on separate hooks in our closet. No more scrambling every morning trying to find matching leggings or a clean onesie. It makes mornings calmer and helps me feel more put-together.

6. I Batch Clean & Simplify Toys

Instead of cleaning every single night, I batch clean—laundry twice a week, floors once a week, and daily tidying only where needed. I also rotate Eliana’s toys, keeping just a few out at a time. It cuts down on mess and actually keeps her more engaged.

7. I Use Amazon for Everything

From diapers to toddler pajamas to pantry staples, Amazon Prime has become my best friend. I keep a “Mom Essentials” list saved in my account for easy reorders, and it’s honestly one of the biggest sanity-savers.

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8. I Prep Snacks for the Week

Every Sunday, I prep a quick snack bin in the fridge—grapes, cheese sticks, pouches, yogurt melts. It makes outings and busy mornings so much smoother. I also keep a car snack stash in a small organizer in the backseat for emergency hangry moments.

9. I Simplify Our Routine

I’ve realized that toddlers thrive on simple, predictable routines. I keep meal, nap, and bedtime schedules consistent, and I plan errands around her nap to avoid overtired meltdowns. The structure helps both of us feel calmer and more balanced.

10. I Give Myself Grace

Lastly—and maybe most importantly—I remind myself daily that I’m not striving for perfection. Some days are messy, some meals are store-bought, and that’s okay. The more grace I give myself, the more joy I find in motherhood.

Mom Life, But Easier

Being a toddler mom doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. With a little planning, automation, and self-care, your days can flow smoother. Start small—maybe it’s scheduling grocery pickup or prepping snacks—and see how much lighter life feels.